Ahh, another fine hangout session at my best friend’s house. Of course I leave sooo much fatter, thanks to his dad lol, and with a new reassurance of our future together. It’s very interesting that me and him have the most vivid picture of what our lives are going to be like once we are both out of our own shit. ..and when I say vivid, I mean pretty damn crystal friggin ball vivid lol… But honestly, that future that we’re both working towards has pulled us out of stuff when we felt like there just wasn’t a reason to fight anymore. That “tag-team” is what makes us best friends. No no no. We’re more than that, we’re bffs.
Oh there’s a big difference.
Everyone has friends. Then everyone has best friends. Then everyone has their family. ..some people dispute that order of importance lol.. Then some people, not everyone, has a bff. If you’re one of those lucky individuals to have a bff, you’ll know. A bff relationship is cultured, cultivated, molded, and worked on. Time is irrelevant. I’ve known alot of people longer than I’ve known jonathan, but I still would give all I have only for him.
Well maybe my brothers too, but ehh..not the same lol.
A bff transcends the natural order of things. Like a super bond. Past all personal boundaries until they’ve integrated into every aspect of your life. Until you find yourself consulting them on every choice you make, hoping for their approval. Like I can’t lie, I think he’s a big reason I’m still single because he hasn’t liked anybody I’ve dated lol. I’m just thankful everyday that i have someone I can turn to no matter what. Can’t wait until we have our own apartment together. We already have settled who’s cooking, cleaning, decorating, laundry, which of our furniture is going in it, etc. Sometimes I wonder where I’d be without him. And like-wise I wonder where he’d be without me.
Still baffles me how he loves the new Nissan GTR and my favorite skyline will always be the Nissan Skyline R33. In fact, I would love a model of one of those. Just a glimpse at how different we are.
Well i guess this isn’t as super in-depth beyond just me expressing my gratefulness for this special person I have in my life. You could take away almost everything I’ve ever worked for and as long as I still have him, I’d be happy.
Til next time. Stay frosty.